Showing posts with label Weddingbee. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Weddingbee. Show all posts

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Soooo, how'd ya meet?

Everyone loves that question. Sooooo, how did ya meet? Mr. Porcupine and I used to get that a lot. Almost 5 years later, and that question has sort of worn off, but I'm sure you guys are wondering.

It was my junior year when we first "met." I had just left the first of many sorority rush events (*ahem* I mean "recruitment" since the word rush was banned from our school, yea...) and I was sweaty and disgusting. I remember our recruitment shirts that year- they were black and it was one of those hot September days that haven't yet realized that summer is over.  Me.No.Like. Hence our March wedding.

My roommate and I stopped to speak to one of our sorority sisters who was one of the RAs of her dorm. A few of her residents came downstairs, and a friend of hers brought his dog over. Mr. Porcupine was one of those residents. He and his roomie stood around petting the dog. We all introduced ourselves. Then, we left. That.was.it. Exciting, I know. Why in the name of Charlie Chaplin do I even remember this?

Fast forward a few weeks later and Mr. Porcupine's good (female) friend decided to pledge my sorority (*ahem* I mean, decided to go through the "new member orientation process".... pledge, another banned word). Said friend became my sorority little sister. Yes, I know if you weren't in a sorority this sounds plain ridiculous, but I swear it seemed completely normal at the time. Now, when I slip and call her Little, people are all like buhhhh what is this "little" you speak of?

After my little started "new member orienting," aka pledging, Mr. Porcupine started to basically act like a JERK to everyone in the sorority. He will vehemently deny this, but it's true! We were all convinced he was jealous that his bud was not around as much anymore. I immediately decided to dislike him and ignore him when we would pass each other in the Communications building of our campus. I was also very mature in college, did I mention that?

Soooooo, we did that for awhile.

**all pictures are personal photos

Said little (who is actually average person sized) with Mr. Porcupine and I after we got together

Fast forward 1.5 years and my little brings him to my senior year semi-formal as a guest (as a friend, not as a romantic interest or anything- no dramz here), and Mr. Porcupine ended up hanging out with me most of the evening.  Fast forward a few more months, and we ended up meeting up at our college's sacrilegious weekly Friday happy hour (and by college's I mean the bar's down the street where everyone from our school went). From there we started "dating" aka no one I know "dates" in college, you "hangout" because you're too broke to join the real world of dating (which apparently exists).

A month later, before I left for spring break with some sorority sisters, I asked him what was going on. Were we a "couple?" So we decided to make it official, and the rest, as they say, is history. Actually before history began I got a fever, threw up the entire night before leaving for Acapulco (great start to a relationship don't ya think... "helpppp, I'm violently puking"), and wanted to die the first few hours we landed in Mexico.


Our first real "couple photo" upon my return from Mexico

I graduated that May (Mr. Porcupine still had a year to go) and moved home, which was only 45 minutes from our school. We did the "semi-long distance" thing for a year, and then, after he graduated, got our first apartment together. Now we're up to our second place and planning our wedding (for 1 1/2 years)! My, how time flies, and then starts trolling extremely slowwwwwly.

Was your "how we met" story one for the books? Or, did it just sort of happen?

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Well Lookie Here, I'm a Bee??

I'm a bee? Say whaaa?? I am still in mass confusion about this. I was convinced my little redhead (okay, that's a lie- my head's not quite that little) would get lost amongst the many applications. But, then, one crazy busy day at work, I looked down at my Blackberry and blindly scanned the e-mail that said I was a Bee in a sleepy haze of confusion.

My brain did something like this: "think you'd be a great addition to the team." = Huh, when did I join a league? I'm on a team? What kind of weird spam is this?

Then the end-of-workday haze cleared and I scrolled back up to the "FROM" line, and it all made sense. I hope you guys are ready for me, because I'm a bit of a nut. I would say crazy, but I don't think that's politically correct anymore.

I had to pick the porcupine (after much difficult life decision deliberation), because a) her hairdo resembles my fro in its natural form (thank you hair gel/hair straightener gods) and b) like this little dude I may look sweet, but I definitely have a prickly side to me. I can't help it. It's the Brooklyn in me!

So, who the are these kids, you ask?


Just another day in the life...


Cleaning up for my college roomie's wedding

We're two wackos who found each other in college right before I graduated (even though we had already known each other for 2 years). I'm a sarcastic New Yorker and he's a friendly Pennsylvanian. I'm obsessive compulsive and he's laid back. (Isn't that how it always seems to go?) He's a sports fanatic and I'm a celebrity news junkie. Our shared love of all things buffalo wings, lazy movie nights, Mexican food, obsessively making plans way too far in advance, and cheap wine keep us together.

Oh, did I mention we also share the wacko gene.

Our trip to Mexico in 2010 at a "tequila factory"
(lies, it turned out to be in a mall)

Because I like to be ironic (but hopefully there's no rainnnnnnnnn on our wedding day), we're getting married in Lancaster, Pennsylvania: home of the Amish, in a converted barn with an attached rustic ballroom. Not like I'm a stereotypical New Yorker or anything, whose lungs hurt when breathing in country air...

We have a great big eclectic wedding party. Think sorority girls meet "I Love You Man" (the movie). I've never been a big "wedding head" (but, why, yes it looks like I'm here blogging about my wedding), but have learned to embrace planning (and Etsy). We have accomplished a lot that I can't wait to blab your ears eyes off with, and also have a whole lot more to do. At this point- with 7 months to go- I am looking forward to just being able to dance to Lady Gaga with a glass of champagne. So let's go kiddies!!

**all pictures are personal photos**